Military Family Services Guide

Military families face unique childcare challenges: PCS moves every 2-3 years, deployment separations, non-standard duty hours, and the constant need to rebuild your support network at each new station. The military provides significant family services - but navigating what's available at each installation is confusing. This guide maps everything.

Your most important phone number: Military OneSource at 800-342-9647. Free, confidential, 24/7. They can connect you to childcare, therapy, family counseling, financial help, and community resources at any installation worldwide. Use them.

On-Base Childcare

Child Development Centers (CDCs)

Every major installation has a CDC providing full-time childcare for ages 6 weeks to 5 years. These are DoD-certified, NAEYC-accredited facilities with military-trained staff.

Income LevelWeekly Cost (approx)Compared to Civilian
E1-E4 (junior enlisted)$100-175/week40-60% below civilian
E5-E6$150-225/week30-50% below civilian
E7-E9 / O1-O3$200-300/week20-40% below civilian
O4+ / GS equivalent$250-400/week10-25% below civilian
CDC waitlists are real. Average wait: 6-18 months. Get on the list the moment you receive PCS orders to a new installation. Dual-military and single-parent military families get priority. While waiting, use the fee assistance program for off-base care.

Family Child Care (FCC)

Military-certified in-home providers living on or near base. Often more flexible hours than CDCs. Costs are comparable to CDCs. Licensed and inspected by the installation. Great option while on the CDC waitlist.

School-Age Care (SAC)

Before/after school and summer programs for ages 6-12. Available at Youth Centers on most installations. $50-150/week. Activities include homework help, sports, arts, STEM, and field trips.

Off-Base Childcare

When CDCs are full (common), you have strong off-base options:

Therapy and Special Needs (EFMP)

The Exceptional Family Member Program serves military families with children who have special needs - autism, ADHD, speech delays, developmental disabilities, chronic medical conditions.

What EFMP Provides

Enroll through your installation's EFMP office. Enrollment is mandatory if your dependent has a qualifying condition, but the program is supportive - not punitive. It protects your family. Find civilian therapy providers near your base on CubHelp's therapy directory.

During Deployment

PCS Moves: Childcare Transition Checklist

  1. 6-12 months out: Get on CDC waitlist at gaining installation. Call: your gaining installation's CYS (Child and Youth Services) office.
  2. 3-6 months out: Search CubHelp for off-base options near new base. Contact CCR&R at gaining installation for fee assistance pre-approval.
  3. 1-2 months out: Confirm childcare arrangement. Tour if possible during house-hunting trip. Register for School-Age Care if applicable.
  4. At new base: Register for CDC (even if using off-base). Connect with FRG. Find youth sports, activities, and community programs through MWR and CubHelp.
  5. EFMP families: Contact gaining installation's EFMP coordinator before PCS to confirm therapy provider availability.

MWR Youth Programs

Morale, Welfare, and Recreation (MWR) offers subsidized youth programs at every installation:

Frequently Asked Questions

How much does on-base childcare cost?
CDC childcare uses income-based sliding scale from $100-400/week, typically 20-40% below civilian rates. Fees are standardized across branches. Priority goes to dual-military, single military parents, and wounded warriors. Waitlists average 6-18 months - apply immediately upon receiving PCS orders.
What is EFMP and how do I get therapy for my child?
EFMP supports military families with special needs dependents. It coordinates assignments to stations with needed services, provides therapy through TRICARE + ECHO ($36,000/year additional), and offers 16-40 hours/month respite care. Enroll at your installation's EFMP office. Find civilian therapists near your base on CubHelp.
How do I find childcare when PCSing?
Get on the CDC waitlist 6-12 months before PCS. Contact Military OneSource (800-342-9647) for local referrals. Search CubHelp for off-base options. Apply for fee assistance through your installation's CCR&R office if CDC is full. If EFMP, coordinate with gaining installation's EFMP office for therapy continuity.

Find Services Near Your Base

Off-base daycare, therapy, camps, and activities near every installation.

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